"In 'How to ListenHow to Listen,' Oscar Trimboli shares helpful tips for getting really good at listening.
He shows how important it is to really pay attention when someone is talking and how it can make your relationships better. Here are the main points:
1. Listening isn't just about hearing words; it's about understanding what someone is really saying.
2. To be a good listener, give your full attention, ask questions to make sure you get it, and repeat back what you understood.
3. Quiet moments can be powerful for thinking and understanding.
4. Try to understand how the other person feels and what they need.
5. Don't interrupt; it can mess up the flow of the conversation.
6. Pay attention to what's really motivating someone to say what they're saying.
7. Be open to learning from others and hearing different opinions.
8. Repeat back what someone says to show you understand and care about their feelings.
9. Remove distractions to focus on the person speaking.
10. Ask for feedback to see how well you're listening.
11. It takes time and practice to become a really good listener.
12. The goal is to understand, not just to think about what you'll say next
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Trimboli says being a good listener is super important for making your relationships better, both at work and in your personal life. You can listen to the audiobook for free with the link provided."